Finding Strength: Navigating Life, Overcoming Trauma, and Embracing Resilience


A collection of stories from my past and daily life dedicated to exploring the challenges and triumphs of the human experience. It delves into personal stories of trauma, offering insights into how I was able to navigate through my darkest moments and emerge stronger. This blog aims to empower readers to embrace resilience, foster a positive mindset, and find strength in their own journeys.

  • A book within a blog

    I’ve decided to start posting what could one day be a book detailing my life into this blog. I’ve gone through so much in my life and I had hoped to turn my experiences into a book that showed others it was possible to be more than what your past dictated for the future. But…

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  • Keeping Up with Cali Living

    It was 7pm and I was looking at my daughters play with each other. I’ve already drank a bottle of champagne tonight so my self loathing is very strong. I was thinking of how my girls are currently just laughing and enjoying themselves. I usually feel like they’re lacking something in their lives, but they’re…

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  • Death by a thousand cuts

    You can’t really “force” someone to stop an affair. You can give someone an ultimatum. You can install every tracking device possible on their car and phone, observing their every move. You can have eyes on someone every single waking moment of their life and make it *almost* impossible for them to see their affair…

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  • A little too late…

    I’m torn for the right words. My ex-husband sent me an email that I wasn’t expecting, basically saying he wishes or hoped I’d give the marriage one more shot. And I’m not torn for reasons that anyone might think. For 15 years, I did a lot. I bent over backwards trying to appease everyone but…

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  • What no one tells you

    Happily married for almost 10 years. Own a home, great careers, we have wonderful, beautiful children. Something was missing. And no one, let alone me could have seen it coming. The happiness, it wasn’t genuine. It was a facade that I leaned onto hoping that I could ride it out until it became real. But…

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